When we get back with abusive men, and let me talk about trauma bonding for a moment first, trauma bonding simply means that if two people have shared a highly emotional experience together, it gives them a unique bond and perhaps even a false sense of a depth of bond and a false sense of shared history. The more intense the experiences the more deeply it could be said to burn into a person’s unconscious, so if you compare a pleasant evening out between a nice couple, where they go and they have a nice meal, and then they go to the cinema and then they come back, and they have quiet but nice sex for 15-20 minutes and go to sleep in each other’s arms. That’s all very nice and it’s very lovely.
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Why do women, and men, go back to abusive partners again and again? Meet Trauma Bonding, aka Stockholm Syndrome
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Lets have a look at Why is Sex Important in a Relationship?
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Some people say sex is overrated, and others believe otherwise. But in reality, sex can really help you beyond just your bedroom. Find out why sex is important in a relationship, and how you can use it to have a better life.
Sex feels great when you’re indulging in it with someone you love passionately.
But why do so many people give it so much attention, and why is sex important in a relationship?
At first, no one really gave sex a thought beyond how good it made us feel while doing the deed.
But as the years passed by, we couldn’t ignore the effects of sex anymore.
Think about it, having great sex feels awesome and makes you feel all warm and fuzzy. And as a matter of fact, sex is pretty important in a relationship for a lot of other reasons too.
So why is sex important?
We have sex for pleasure, for relaxation, for fun, frolic, and social status. You’ve heard of it and may even have had sex for all the above reasons, but c
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GENTS ONLY:- 7 Sure Shot Ways To Get You Out Of A Sex Slump And End That Dry Spell Once And For All
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Everyone, once in their lives, gets stuck in a sex slump or a dry spell which may lead to absolute clueless ness on how to end the phase. It could be because you just got out of a long term relationship and weren’t really ready to hit the sack with another person or you just haven’t had enough opportunity with women to have random sex here and there. Whatever it is, it’s really nothing to panic about.
A sexual dry spell can last for a year to a few months or even a few weeks. If you were regular at having sex and are experiencing a slump period, then even a week or two without it may seem unbearable and when you do get out of it, you may be a little confused about re-exploring your sexuality. Especially when you come out of a long term relationship where you’ve been having sex with just one person and want to come out of the slump stage. It’s a tad difficult but definitely achievable.
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LADIES ONLY:- Lets have a look at 12 things all guys want to hear in bed
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Let’s get straight to the point of how to please a man in bed. This is hot and heavy stuff … so enjoy it !!
1. “I’m coming.” They don’t just want to hear it, they want to make sure their neighbors hear it too, so scream it. Every guy wants to know he’s making you orgasm, and what better way to tell him than explicitly stating you’re orgasming, except, you know, sexy?
2. “You’re so good at going down on me.” We know this is a point of contention for a lot of guys, so it’s nice to know we’ve got nothing to worry about. Men want to hear this when they’re doing anything even if it’s something mundane like taking out the garbage. When it’s something that directly challenges our manhood, that desire increases tenfold.
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3. “You’re so big.” This is
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So your in a relationship and you want to know if you are ready to have sex
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Sex can be a wonderful thing, if you are ready to become sexually active. If you are not ready, then it can have some severe consequences including emotional problems, sexually transmitted infections, and even unintended pregnancy.
There are several ways that you can determine if you are ready to start having sex. If you decide that you are ready for sex, you will need to discuss concerns and expectations with your partner and make a plan for protecting yourselves.
Doing these things will help to ensure that your first time will be safe and enjoyable.
Evaluating the Situation
Know that everyone is different. Making the decision to become sexually active is a big one and you have to consider your unique situation. There is no “right” time to become sexually active. It is just something that you have to think about and do your best to make the right decision for you.
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Dating: When fantasy meets reality
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A thought for the day about something a lot of people are guilty of (and, let’s be honest here, women are actually worse at this). I’m talking about thinking too far ahead when just starting to date someone.
All of us have ideas of our ideal relationship. In fact, I’ve come across women who had their whole life worked out, from every minute detail of their wedding day to the way their house would look, the names of their children. All that was missing was the husband, a husband without any ideas or character of his own, one might assume, or he may want to have a say in the way his life unfolds.
While this may be an extreme example of what happens when you take materialism to the extreme and try and adapt your love life to it, you’ll find that this sort of jumping ahead is all too common in the world of dating. Men are thought to generally be more relaxed about such things, but can be just as guilty of having unrealistic ideals of what women should be like
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What are the Top 14 Characteristics of a Sexually Confident Woman? Are you one?
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Do you know the “symptoms” of a sexually confident woman? Could you already be one?
Let me give you a check list to see if maybe you have some possible aspects of a sexual confident woman:
1. Women who not only enjoy their sexuality, but actively pursues erotic and sensual pleasures.
2. Women who do not feel dependent on their partner for the expression of their sexuality.
3. Women who are confident about their relationship with their own body.
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4. Women who have an understanding or desire to understand sex skills — and have cultivated the belief that they are “good at sex” and they seek out information to give themselves more sexual self confidence and expression.
5. Women
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